"Harriet Lerner pioneers on behalf of women's whole humanity. Each chapter in The Mother Dance is worth the price of admission." —Gloria Steinem

"Here are the stories that your own mother might never have had the courage to tell you. Once you start reading you won't allow yourself to be interrupted from the unflinchingly honest revelations about the awesome power of being a mother." —Naomi Judd

"I couldn't put this book down. It comes the closest I've ever seen to fully articulating the dilemmas, insecurities, and the many great joys of motherhood." —Betty Carter

"The Mother Dance is the most reassuring, gutsy, and entertaining book about being a mother that I have ever read. A real tour de force!" —Clare McHugh

"In The Mother Dance, there are no mistakes in parenting - only learning experiences told with a great sense of humor." —Dr. Benjamin Spock

"'The Mother Dance' is one of the wisest and most honest books on parenting I have read. As a parent myself, I ate up story after story, insight after insight. This excellent book offers a reader pleasurable learning, an oxymoron in the world of education and professionalism, and it is deceptively simple. With its fluid and engaging language lies solid psychological insight and analysis." —Thomas Moore, Ph.D, Author of Care of the Soul and The Soul of Sex

"What a gift Harriet Lerner's work continues to be. I loved The Mother Dance; it's wonderful -- true, touching, practical, spiritual, sanity-saving, and I laughed out loud a number of times, with recognition, surprise, and gratitude." —Anne Lamott

"Harriet Lerner writes with charm, precision and at times unbearable honesty about what motherhood is. This book shows us the way." --Mary Pipher, Author of Reviving Ophelia

Writing from her dual perspective as psychologist and mother, Dr. Harriet Lerner puts the spotlight on how a woman is changed when she becomes a mother. Enlivened with personal tales and vivid case examples that run the gamut from the hilarious to the heart-wrenching. The Mother Dance spells out what happens to a woman when two become three ... and four. We see why her new life is so different from his - and how children inevitably help us to discover things about ourselves and our partners that we would otherwise never know. Lerner shows us how kids call on us to grow up and are the best teachers of life's most profound spiritual lessons. From birth to the empty nest, Lerner's own experience has taught her the basic lessons of motherhood: that we are not in control of what happens to our children; that most of what we worry about doesn't happen (though bad things happen that we fail to anticipate); and that our children will love us with all of our imperfections if we can do the same for them. Lerner helps us to distinguish what we can change (and how to do it), and when we need to surrender to the fact that our lives - and our children's - may not go as we expect or plan.

Written & narrated by Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. - Abridged Nonfiction - Abridged by Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. - 2 CASSETTES - 3 hours

Publisher, Harper Audio (May, 1998)

List $18.00